Sex and Theatrics

So me and my best partner were just talking about sex and women lol as usual. Then, we have both came up with the thing. You don't fall in love with dick or pussy. You fall in love with the theatrics of the situations. You even orgasm off the theatrics. He was saying he even when you're getting head from an "ugly chick" and she has sex traits (big lips, booty, etc)...its not the head..its the excitement of the sex traits ALWAYS. When someone goes back to a person for sex then its no cause their "sex" is good. It's the things they do and how they make u feel. The sex in itself doesn't capture you. A dude can have a big dick and a female still won't orgasm if she doesn't like him or the things he does around her. If a guy doesn't have sex often, of course he's going to think a girl pussy is good for the simple fact that he's not getting it on the regular. She might be the only girl he's had in a min so that's he thinks she's the best. It's the same with women, if she's only had sex with one guy of course she's going to think he's the best because he was her first so she has nothing else to compare him. The only reason she'll go back to him is because he was her first and that is the theatrics surrounding it. Its not the sex at all. Sex is so mental its ridiculous. When a guy meets a chick, and they have sex in a matter of hours or a day. It's not the sex, its cause he had sex with her that fast. All of this came to me because my ex said she KNOWS i was the best sex she had when honestly she was not. It was ok but it was the bond we had that made it good and my feelings for her. It was mental stimulation that I got front her.